RIGHT! EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND GIVE---- OJ ---- YOUR THOUGHTS, PRAYERS AND HUGS

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Update at 20:17 - No more trifles today. Steves breathing not good and he won't take his meds. DN is coming in morning and said about fitting him with a driver.

Update at 20:28 - Got some mates here, not sure if tonight the night

Come on girls!!

Another lurker, humbled by your strength over the past months.

Sending you {{{{hugs}}}}

xx

I hope the MIL visit goes ok OJ, keep strong you are a fantastic lady. I have no idea how you deal with any of this.

Much love to you and your family xxxx

We are all with you.

steve is still asleep, he is very still and looks relaxed.
i am awiting MILs vist i do hope she likes all the flowers, we had some mates vist last night and they gave steve some lovely red roses which he gave me
the conservatory looks like a florist now and i do hope steves mum likes all the lvoely flowers and sees just how many people are thinking of us.
they were on about reducing the hours because they only agreed 24 hour care cos he was a high suicide risk after his attempt.
he isn't a risk in that respect anymore as he is not mobile, if they do reduce the care package then we will self fund because there is no way i can manage him on my own.

Morning OJ, I hope the meeting today is OK. Peace and strength sent for you all as always.

xxx

OJ, if they reduce the care package we will all help out! I'll start another thread for donations.

I'm glad Steve is not in any pain at the moment. x

Glad to hear steve had a peaceful night, hope all your visits go ok today.
thinking of you all, xxx

Hope the MIL visit goes OK today and that the meeting with the continuing care team is fine.

As with everyone else on MN you are in my thoughts and prayers.

OJ, you and your family are very much in my thoughts. I hope Steve has a good day today.

Hope all goes well today - will send the vibes at 10.00am.
Thinking of you all X

look after yourself oj
x

Wishing you a day without any troubles, thinking of you all lots xxx

Just found this and wanted to send my love and {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

OJ what about Macmillan or Marie Curie Nurses, could they co-care ?

Thoughts and prayers for you OJ, all day, but particularly between 10 and 12!

I am going out shortly but I have my mobile and I am thinking of you.

yes the Marie Curie Nurses could be brought in they come throu the DN, so will wait and see

don't post often but check all the time ..but somehow missed this last night. Wishing you strength ..you are in my thoughts.

Hugs and support across the airwaves. Like everybody here, I think about you all the time and am sending you lots of love to help you to stay strong.

Words are so inadequate but be sure that lots of mumsnetters hold you in their hearts through this difficult time.

XXXXXXXXXX

still thinking of you. Am one of those many who doesn't post often on your threads but has followed the whole thing. CYBER LOVE.

Like so many others I lurk here regularly but never know what to say. You are in my thoughts and I'm wishing you, Steve and the children love and strength.

Good luck with all the meetings today OJ, hopefully MIL will behave herself.
Love to all in the OJ home

oj, i'm sorry i missed this last night. i am always thinking of you steve and the kids. both our lives changed on one day last year, i just wish i could make this all better for you, and it hurts that there isnt much anyone can do.

Thinking of you all here as well.

Good luck for the MIL visit.

Thinking of you all x