RIGHT! EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND GIVE---- OJ ---- YOUR THOUGHTS, PRAYERS AND HUGS

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Update at 20:17 - No more trifles today. Steves breathing not good and he won't take his meds. DN is coming in morning and said about fitting him with a driver.

Update at 20:28 - Got some mates here, not sure if tonight the night

Come on girls!!

Love and prayers
xxx

Thinking of you. Wish I knew what to say. x

OJ sending you and yours more positive vibes, to add to the collective.
May you find some peace.
xx

OJ you and your beautiful family are as always in my thoughts.

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Another silent MNer - you are never far from my thoughts. Wishing you all peace.

love andprayers to you all xx

Wishing you love, peace and strength in the coming hours, days and weeks ahead, but Jo- I'm especially hoping that you know we are all beside you, holding your hand, giving you strength.

You are very loved. xxx

Love to you OJ -x- and your family xxxxx

OJ, wishing you a peaceful night and you and Steve the strength to deal with this.
You sound incredibly strong in your posts, and with such love for Steve and your children. I hope that it carries you all through.

OJ what can I say but that you and your family are in my prayers tonight. Have been lurking but have not posted before. May you and the children have the strengh to get through this and may Steve be at peace. The only thing that you and the children must remember is that Steve is on his way to a better place a place where he will not have pain and suffering anymore and he will be waiting for all of you on the other side.

Another silent follower - thinking of you all and wishing you strength and peace.

thinking of you all x

Not sure what to say, so will just send xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

peace and love OJ. Thinking about you and Steve and the DCs xx

I'll never forget your kind words to me when my mum was in the hospice over christmas, especially as you had your own worries.

xx

OJ, thinking of you and your family tonight, xx

Another lurker here. Wishing you strength and peace.

oh no only just seen this - thinking of you and your family OJ xxxx

thinking of you all xxx

I hope you have a peaceful night together. Thinking of you all.

Thinking of you all - sending love and hugs xxx

bless you all, blimey there are a few posts here
Steves breathing seems a bit quiter, not sure if thats good or not.
the problem with the driver is that steve is very confused and aggitated and becoming more aggressive so not sure he would keep the driver in.
i have managed to let him to take a lorazepam rgou it was spat out a few times.
he is asleep and seems peaceful, i am hoping he will sleep for a while.
thankyou for holding us in your thoughts it means a lot, i haven't been able to read all the posts but noticed a few lurkers.

another lurker here
thinking of you and your family and wishing you a peaceful night x

Hope he is settled tonight xxxxx

Have lurked but never posted before. Wanted to add my thoughts to all of the others, in case they help.

hope that you get some rest to oj x