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OJ 's HUGS, RUM & CHOCCIE SUPPORT THREAD

1001 replies

bossybritches · 29/04/2008 22:34

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ttriflenorks · 13/05/2008 16:12

I hope everything went ok with Mike's visit last night and Steve's Ma today. Love to all, Trifle.

NotABanana · 13/05/2008 17:02

I hope you are having a nice day, OJ, and that all is well.

onlyjoking9329 · 13/05/2008 17:11

As steves mum was leaving she said, see you on thursday, you will let me know if anything happens before then? i just said yes, whilst thinking no.
steve has been asleep since just after 12.

NotABanana · 13/05/2008 17:14

Do what you want to do darling.

I hate to say it, but it sounds like she might have been quite civil.

onlyjoking9329 · 13/05/2008 17:21

She was being civil cos she wanted me to agree to contact her and also the SW was sat next to me, she was frosty with Lee the carer and told him he was abrupt

onlyjoking9329 · 13/05/2008 17:24

NAB i have just emailed you

Miaou · 13/05/2008 17:31

Hello OJ, she really is a case isn't she - at least she knows she has to toe the line I guess.

NotABanana · 13/05/2008 17:43

Just because she wants you to contact her doesn't mean you will be able too.

You won't want to leave Steve's side to contact unimportant MIL's his mother.

Will check email now.

NotABanana · 13/05/2008 17:49

Hasn't arrived yet, OJ.

bellavita · 13/05/2008 17:56

OJ, I have lurked a lot on your threads to see how you are Steve are doing.

I just want to send you and your family a million hugs for being so brave and an inspiration to us all.

littlelapin · 13/05/2008 18:00

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SalVolatile · 13/05/2008 18:17

Hi OJ, like I said a while ago, we are all here with you in spirit. Even though you are having to face each day in RL, we are all always with you, always hoping, praying, smiling, grieving alongside you, just as if we were a crowd of respectfully rowdy mates in your sittingroom . You will never be alone in this unless you want to be. If our comments become too much, if this thread becomes something you can't face for a while, then tell us. We'll push off outside for a while until you need us again. Don't be afraid to ask.

LilRedWG · 13/05/2008 18:41

OJ - love to you all heading your way! x

NotABanana · 13/05/2008 19:02

No email yet, OJ.

Have you got the right address - mushy31894(at)fsmail(dot)net

saffy202 · 13/05/2008 19:07

Another one who has followed your threads and I have been bowled over by your braveness and your dignity.

My prayers are with you all.

fransmom · 13/05/2008 19:09

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((oj and steve)))))))))))))))))))

NaughtyNigella · 13/05/2008 19:15

glad that steve is having a peaceful afternoon.
hope your evening and night is too.

cocolepew · 13/05/2008 19:24

Thinking of you all x.

bundle · 13/05/2008 19:24

hi OJ
my mum has just rung to say my auntie died this afternoon, I'm praying for my uncle and cousins as well as you honey, xxx

cocolepew · 13/05/2008 19:25

Sorry for your loss bundle x.

Izabella · 13/05/2008 19:28

OJ, I am relieved to hear that Steve's breathing is in a more settled pattern. You must have gotten usch a fright. Bless you hun. Just want to wrap my arms around you. Call me anytime. xxx

NotABanana · 13/05/2008 19:28

So sorry, bundle.

VaginaShmergina · 13/05/2008 19:29

Bundle, very sorry for yours and your families loss.

Missytrouble · 13/05/2008 21:30

Just dropping in to say hi and send you lots of love OJ.

xx

NotABanana · 13/05/2008 21:42

OJ

I hope you are okay.

Just to let you know I haven't had any emails and I am going up soon. Will check back as soon as I can tmw.

Hope you are all okay.

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