so is this cos I messed up my pill or something more sinister ie pg (and please say that's not possible!!!)

[davidtennantsmistress]

right ok, went back on the pill a thte start of jan, took it for 3 days then forgot to take it again for about a week, then took 2 day of that week the following week, then forgot to take it again for about 3 days. (basically buggered it all up but didn't think it would matter as haven't had sex since last aug) anyhow, made a very very stupid and silly mistake, had sex with someone used a condom, (well without getting graphic was on before and during I think) after I have no idea what happened as he went to the loo - am assuming it was on/he delt with it I didn't ask. anyhow. the next day I started a v v light AF. but also from that day since i've had terrible ahem S&D without the S. the day I started bleeding would have ben right for when AF was due as it was ment to be my week off of the pill.

have started taking the pill again but feel sicky most of the time esp first thing and until i've had brekkie/been to the loo.

so to that end (and i've prob not explained it very well) but is this cos I messed my pill up the first month and it's settling in again, or could there be some tiny chance I am pg - apart form this I don't feel I am at all, and lord knows I really really don't want to be esp by him so help me!

(and before anyone starts, yes I was stupid, it's a big regreat so don't shout at me for that bit - won't be happening again with anyone else)

I'd do a test and if negative look to get a more reliable birth control in place. That's what I'm doing this week

it's my own stupid fault, the pill for me is very very good when taken properly. think it would show a neg as it was last monday we did the deed. FFS. I am so stupid and really do not want to be pg, it's not possible thou is it?

fsd - thanks for replying thou. hope you get the answer you want.

did you start taking it on the first day of your period? (at beggining of jan?)

DTM dont beat yourself up, its not like your coming on here saying 'i had unprotected sex' u where sensible and used a condom so u have nothing to be ashamed about, i think it is most likely the pills ettling in - and it willc ause breakthrough bleeding, i think if you where pregnant its FAR to early for any of the sickness feelings to start anyway HTH

yes for a few days then kept forgetting. DS found the packet on the top so I put it in my draw and forgot about it pretty much. had sex 3 weeks after I took my first pill (all be it out of a pack of 21 I only took about 8 of them)

loopy thanks that's what I thought was prob the whole feeling guilty over doing it. i'm rather embaressed and it's the first time (literally) i've ever had sex with anyone who wasn't a long term partner/boyfriend. it's just the pooping bit can the pill really make you go so much/for so long?