My son (16, over 6ft and very strong) is verbally abusive towards me, has never been physically violent to me but smashes up his room. Nevertheless it is frightening. I have never discussed this with my gp, but have with his psychologist and with one of my hcps (who included it in a letter - I didn't know that was going to happen). Does anyone know if this is then flagged up on my gp notes in any way?