Hello
My DH has a stressful job, long drive and weird ex wife that causes the off blip.
Anyway, he used to smoke a lot but gave up when found out his wife was pregnant so approx 18 years ago.
When we first met my darling dear departed mum used to day that he was addicted to me as bedroom department was full on. Very much enjoyable though! The way he looked at me etc.
Anyway, most people I know have the odd tipple very now and then unless abstaining. I am not one to criticise drinking.
In the pas, my DH used to look at the clock before deciding what he was drinking i.e a cuppa or wine. He was using alcohol at that time as a pain killer as had severe health issues now sorted out. I used to think he was anaesthetising himself with alcohol. I mean 1 ltr Bacardi a week.
Now he has nearly 1 bottle of wine a day! Better alcohol ABV but still.
Sometimes he only has 3/4 but I still think too much.
Nookie still every night 