Bit embarrassing but I’m in my 40s and recently have been having the issue where I will cough while asleep and end up peeing myself a bit. Not full blown wetting the bed but noticeable. Currently i’m single so not the biggest issue in the world but if I got into a relationship, any guy I slept with would definitely notice! Alone, I can use pads, but again if I was with someone how would I explain “oh I need to put a pad on” without owning up? I’m fine in the day unless on the odd occasion i’m out somewhere and bursting for the loo, but I would like to get it sorted but not sure how.