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Tightness/Pain in Vagina

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MortifiedTea · 03/04/2018 16:39

Hi
NC because I actually can’t beleive I’m posting this on the internet. I want the ground to swallow me up. Sorry for not posting in sex, tried but won’t let me due to NC.
I’m late 20s, no DC. A few flings, no long term partners because I cannot tolerate sex due to the pain. It is agony. All of my partners have been girthy and Im starting to think this is the issue - finally went to see a doctor, had a smear done and was in such pain I had to ask the GP to stop. Almost fainted when she opened the plastic thing Blush came back clear, sent for a scan, scan all fine BUT totally pain free. I can also use a bullet but not a rabbit - all of my toys (that I can use/will go in) are less than 3.5 in circumference. I’m waiting for a follow up appointment but is it possible I just have too tight a vagina? Is that a thing?
Is there a solution to this? Will I ever been normal? Do I have to join micro penis dating sites? (I’m totally serious, have have drunkenly researched this more than once!!)
Thank you for reading something so long and rambley, I’m just st the end of my tether and am tired of feeling like a freak.

OP posts:
only39p · 03/04/2018 16:44

Could you have Vaginismus?

only39p · 03/04/2018 16:45

www.vaginismus.com/vaginismus-causes/

MortifiedTea · 03/04/2018 17:06

Thank you only39p - it some of it sounds very similar. Could it still be vaginismus if tampons have never been a problem?

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Anotherdayanotherdollar · 29/04/2018 22:33

Similar story here! I've recently started seeing a womens' health physio and have made a bit of progress. the physio felt that the muscles in my pelvic floor were too tight so I having learn to relax. Vaginal dilators are the next step but she said slimline toys are fine to use either.
Maybe try to get a physio referral and go from there? My GP and gynaecologist have fobbed me off for years and I've had numerous scans and blood tests. I even had surgery fgs. But the physio has been the only beneficial one!
Hth!

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