After 15 years of not being able to have the smear test done -I finally managed to have it done today!!
I've always just found it too painful and uncomfortable to let the nurse continue - as well as generally binning the reminder letters and avoiding completely.
But, today, I finally did it...this is what helped...
- breath out (it won't be possible to breathe out and tense at the same time) I picked this one up from Mumset, thank you!
- try to book last minute at a time when you are really busy so that you can't think yourself out of it
- take your partner with you - to squeeze his their hand or whatever..
- take a hot bath just before you go, it relaxes the muscles
- ask to see the speculum (I had the small plastic one) just so I know exactly what it looks like
I did it after so long and after so many attempts - so know it is possible!