8 week old (corrected age 3 wks) DS has inguinal and umbilical hernias. Have read hernia threads and a couple of things worrying me if he has to have an operation (on NHS): (1) how long do you have to starve them for beforehand and how the hell do you cope with a screaming starving baby? Can they be given some sort of mild sedation beforehand to cope with the hunger? and (2) if they have to stay in overnight are you allowed to stay in with them? Also, he has terrible wind and strains / farts all the time - do you think this is making the hernias worse (the tummy button one certainly pops out further when he's straining).