Thanks everyone, apologies for not replying sooner, but it's been a bit if a roller coaster of a few days
As far as fobbing off goes, my GP is always very nice about things, though hasn't actually managed to diagnose anything correctly for either DD or myself & after a few years of her refusing referral request & my pushing & my being right, she now she has a bit of a habit of agreeing to anything - & then doing nothing about it, I have to chase & chase referrals - like I say, she's nice, but hardly efficient & it's hard work & I would gladly change if there was somewhere else to go, but after her messing, I've learnt to be insistent & follow up by ringing the secretary & make sure it's been done, which seems to be working, but isn't always fast.
I rang 111 after posting & seeing a few of your replies, the pain was getting worse anyway - the doctor that rang me back from there was great, listened well & said he wanted me to go to OOH instead of A&E as A&E were very busy & I didn't sound well enough to sit wait long.
Waste of time that was, the doctor I got just wasn't useless, wasn't listening, didn't check anything at all until DH made a fuss, she then took a urine sample - despite my insisting that it was an infection as it felt very different - long story short, I came away with antibiotics, even though the dipstick White cell level was barely past normal range - she made a big deal of showing me the amount of blood the dipstick showed in my urine - no shit Sherlock - I was seeing beetroot juice & after years of kidney trouble, I know that doesn't mean infection anyway 
I couldn't get an appointment with my GP today, so I decided to go to my local GUM clinic - I rang them first to make sure they would be able to help, they were fantastic, gave me an appointment & after ruling out all infections - I have been fast tracked through the system & passed over the hospital gynaecology department, where I have been all day - poked, prodded, scanned & biopsied - they were looking for cancer, but thankfully they really don't think I have that, though the biopsy results will rule it out completely
Verdict is - I have large fibroids which have haemorrhaged & I'm now back at home, still suffering, but I will get a letter in the next few days that will be for an Op to sort it out & I will be in & out within the next few weeks - still feeling a bit she'll shocked TBH, so heat pads, codeine & an early night for me
Thanks again for giving me the push & the confidence not to listen to the OOH Dr 