Where tf is my period???

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LMP started 5 Nov. All year they've been really regular, starting on 4, 5, 6 or 7th of month.

POAS on 14th Dec, and again today. Both negative. (I really, really don't want to be pg!) Have been having period-like pains for a couple of weeks, including cramps that wake me up at night, and I'm sooo sure that my period is about to start - but no blood!!

Have also tried things I've heard are supposed to "force" your period to start, like aspirin, and ginger tea.

Where tf is it?!? Am 41 so I suppose could be a peri-menopause thing ... But they've been so regular all year.

Any advice?

Oh, forgot to mention that on 30/11 I had light spotting, which I thought was AF arriving really early ... then later worried it was implantation bleeding. But surely I'd be showing a BFP by now, if it was????