Ds2 is four months old and has been having a lot of problems with breathing since he was born. He's been admitted to hospital three times now the last time being Wednesday. They say that they can't be sure it is asthma because of how young he is but have given me an inhaler and spacer to use anyway. While he was in hospital after numerous tests they concluded that he had bronchialitis. He coughs all the time and often goes blue and wheezes. When he cries he ends up wheezing.
I'm worried that I won't know what to look for if he needs help. I'm confident about administering his inhaler but how long do I let him cry for and wheeze before seeking help? Is there some sort of guidance or is it a case of trust my own judgement? Any advise welcome. He's such a wonderful bubbly little boy who will smile for anyone and it makes me so sad to see him obviously frightened by not being able to breathe.