Bleeding after sex - Help please

[Friedbrain]

Hi..

My periods are all over the place, I am maybe on a couple of days, then two weeks later I could come on again...

Or I could be on for 3 weeks then not have a period for 7...

That kind of thing...

I'm never on time and it is impossible to know when I am due on.

The last couple of times I have had sex I have bleed after alot, like a period, as in clots for 1-2 days...

So this month, I was on for 2 weeks, off for 3 days, had sex was bleeding again for a day. Off for a week, had sex then was on for a day...

Has anyone got any ideas?

Definitely not pregnant.
No pill or coil or implant or anything involved....

I am very over weight.And I am hoping to get pregnant by a doner maybe next year but am scared that this is a sign that I'm never going to know when I'm ovalutaing

I would suggest speaking to your GP about it asap but the things which come to mind are PCOS and/or fibroids.

Using the pill would give you a regular cycle, and make life easier for you from that aspect. But you shouldn't be bleeding after doing the biz. I'd see a doctor.

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I'm back on again :(

I think you need to speak to a doctor. I can't comment on the irregular periods but when I was having persistent bleeding after sex it was because of a small artery near the surface that kept getting aggravated. The gynea said it was very rare for this to happen but it was easily treated with a few stitches.

You really do need to see a gp.

Being bigger doesn't usually affect ovulation although it is a symptom of PCOS. Get tested.