An embarrassing problem........ (blush)

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I've recently started a new relationship and the physical side is great apart from one issue. I have a couple of times "leaked" during intercourse. He was fantastic about it to save my blushes and even suggested it may have been female ejaculate. (blush) again. It wasn't; I've never done that before and the leaking only happens when I'm underneath. My tummy is large and it feels as though when he leans on my tummy, that puts pressure on my bladder although I don't feel as though I need the loo, obviously, something is leaking out. I had a TVT repair a few years ago and have not had this problem since then. This is stopping me relaxing and I don't want my new found sex life to be marred by planning tactical trips to the loo! Has anyone experienced this problem?

The fact that it is only when you are underneath explains a lot. It could mean that your partners penis is rubbing against your urethra on the outside and pushing the bladder on the inside.

It is common for certain positions to result in irritation of the bladder. The size and shape of your partners penis can also have an affect. I personally cannot stand certain positions for this same reason - I am a healthy woman in my very early twenties.

If you are worried about it then I would contact your doctor. If it is just the embarrassment then just tell your partner that you would prefer another position as it is uncomfortable for you if you are underneath and you want to enjoy the sex - add in that the size of his penis is to blame, flattery will get you everywhere.

Thank you Sis, he is rather a large lad so I wouldn't be telling any fibs!