Is this normal after an epiostomy? lump?

[BoysBoysBoysAndMe]

Had one 8 months ago and healed no problem. Sorry TMI coming up!

Now I am hugely embarrassed by my lady bits, I just find it gross. I keep myself clean and tidy but never actually examine myself or look at the finer details!

I just don't like it!

Anyway, yesterday I decided I would have a little examination as i think I probably should seen as i never had. And I've noticed that the place I was cut is like a lump of scar tissue and really quite noticable. Now I'm conscious that I'm not 'even'! Is that normal?

Will it improve with time? Will it stay the same? Could it be something else? I am assuming it's scar tissue.

I have a fugly fanjo!!

Even considering namechanging now.

Is it painful or irritating and does it impact on your sexlife at all? If the answer to all those is no then I would be tempted to leave it alone. I think many of us have fanjos which look quite different to the way they did pre-dc.