down there. i thought id have a check as havent bothered since dd was born. i looked and i cant see where my baby bit (sorry) should be theres just a bit of skin or something solid. im scared that something is wron know i should see the doc but what if its normal and it just cos ive forgoton what it should look like. dont want to make a fool of myself. also havent had sex since dd was born as it was too painfull this might be why.