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Do you research siblings and side branches in your family tree?

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EthanolHawke · 02/09/2026 11:55

How ‘wide’ do you go in your family trees?

I do love seeing how far back I can get with my direct lines but do you also investigate the siblings of your direct ancestors? Has it thrown up anything of interest?

is that breadth versus depth? ( edited for typo)

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chirrupybird · 02/09/2026 15:58

Yes, particularly when it gets really difficult to get back any further. And side branches sometimes really help if an uncle or cousin turns up with someone you think might be a direct relative but can't be sure.

SwedishEdith · 02/09/2026 16:03

Yes. In fact, got more invested in my great grandmother's brother's family as more interesting than mine 😀. But it also lead to contact with 3rd and 2nd cousins.

NestaVipaz · 02/09/2026 16:11

I might have to start doing this as I’ve really gone as far back as I can with the direct lines, unless I want to start touring the country for parish records.

HelenaWilson · 02/09/2026 16:15

Yes. For one thing, it can help with researching the direct line.
For another, their life stories are often very interesting in their own right.
I've found people holding high office, details of war service, migration, sudden deaths and inquests, marital breakdown, working lives, criminal convictions....

Cotopaxi · 02/09/2026 16:22

Yes, it can really help you to overcome a brick wall in your research, because you can use their details or their spouse's name to double-check things on censuses and looking at the names of witnesses on marriage certificates. If you have more than one possible individual and you're not sure which is which, you can confirm that you've got the right one. Particularly helpful if it is a common surname, and one of the other family members has an unusual first name. Helps to pin down the right family. Ebenezer Smith is a lot easier to find than John Smith.

HolyCowrie · 02/09/2026 16:33

Absolutely. As PP have said researching siblings can help with brick walls. I also find the most juicy stories amongst aunts, uncles and cousins. It really helps to bring colour to the whole thing. If I hadn't researched siblings I'd have missed out on so many interesting things.

justcallmemarywhitehouse · 02/09/2026 16:35

Yes you must! I found out who my Great Grandfather's father was by looking at a sibling of my Great Grandmother.

likelysuspect · 02/09/2026 16:36

Yep, Ive gone so far sideways I cant quite work out who they are when I go back into it every few months!!!

I cant go any further back, Im completely stuck in the early 1700s and very late 1600s (and even then that information is a bit of assumption/guesswork) so Im reduced to going sideways and then down their lines.

Another2Cats · 02/09/2026 18:04

As all the earlier posters have said - a very definite yes. It can certainly help to confirm that you have the correct family.

Also, if you are tracing DNA matches, then that will definitely involve siblings of your direct ancestors.

However, most posters don't seem to have touched on your second question

"Has it thrown up anything of interest?"

I would very much agree with SwedishEdith and HelenaWilson that, quite often, it is the siblings of my ancestors (and their descendants) who have proved to have had more interesting lives.

I've posted on various threads here before about more distant relations. These relations have included quite a lot of people who have emigrated to various countries at various times. I'm sorry for repeating myself here.

For example, a number of my mum's older cousins were war brides. Just about every female member of my extended family that could grab herself a US soldier or airman in the 1940s and later the 1950s did just that and went off to the USA.

Then earlier in the 1900s I found someone who was forcibly emigrated from the UK at the age of 14 (he was in a workhouse) to go and work as an indentured servant on a farm in Canada. This happened to around 100,000 children from workhouses and orphanages in the UK. Many other relatives also emigrated to Australia, Canada and New Zealand in the 1800s and early 1900s.

Or if you have any male relatives born between about 1880 and 1900 then there is a reasonable probability that they served in World War One. This may not be so much of an interest but there is a great wealth of information available at The National Archives.

I found out quite a lot about relatives who served in both wars. One, who was captured by the Japanese in Singapore, recently had his portrait that was sketched at the time included in an exhibition.

Or older relatives may have served in earlier wars such as the Boer War or the Crimean War. A relative of mine drowned just after arriving in Crimea.

A relative joined the navy in the early 1900s and spent time sailing up and down the west coast of the Americas and saw President Teddy Roosevelt (who the 'teddy' bear was named after).

While in Chile, the ship obtained a young bear as a mascot. A midshipman on the same ship wrote

“Our bear is in a very flourishing state now. It is allowed to walk about the ship. Once it found its way down to an officer’s cabin on the Main deck. It eat his soap, gnawed his boots and finally went to sleep in his bunk. And today, an officer asleep in his cabin, woke up to find him eating his cigarettes by the hundred.”

He unfortunately died on the way home. His records say “D.D. [discharged dead] 17 Jan 05 in hospital at St Vincent, Cape Verdes from pneumonia”

Or going back earlier to the Mormons travelling to Utah. I found a few ancestors who followed the Mormon Trail to Utah in the 1850s and now I have dna relatives on both sides who live in Utah.

What really started this off for me though was when my mum got her DNA tested and she came across a whole load of very distant (5th to 8th cousins) DNA matches who had the same surname as her mother and they all lived in the USA.

How had that happened?

It turned out that the brother of my 8 times great grandfather (born 1636 in Gloucestershire) arrived in Maryland with one cow and an indentured servant and was granted 100 acres of land. He married and set up as a tanner, farmer and tobacco grower. By the time of his death he owned just over 500 acres of land.

His will included:

‘I do give and bequeath unto my brother John five thousand pounds of tobacco to be shipd home for Bristoll and consigned to him he paying the freight thereof the said tobacco to be sent the next shipping after my Decease.’

A cousin of his also later emigrated to Maryland as well. As it turned out, their descendants ended up fighting on both sides of the American War of Independence. One fought with the Delaware Regiment for the colonies and one fought for a North Carolina militia supporting the British. They even fought on opposite sides at the same battle in 1780.

But, sometimes, what you find can really make you stop and think.

For example, in the 1830 US Census, a branch of the family that had moved from Maryland to Georgia. They were a farming family aged 31 & 22 and had two young children. They also had two slaves; one was a male aged between 10 and 23 and the other was a girl under the age of 10 (those were the age categories in the census).

So it seems that they maybe had a teenage male slave to work on the farm and a young girl slave to help care for the children.

Then by the time of the 1840 census they had seven children and eight slaves. Two male slaves, presumably to work on the farm. There were also three adult female slaves and three girl slaves under the age of 10. I suppose they looked after the seven children of their owners.

When it came to 1850 the family now had eight children and 14 slaves. Although two of them had just been born. In the 1850 Census the sex and age of slaves were recorded, but not their names.

Just stop and think about that for a moment. Even in 1850 in certain states they are not even recording the names of slaves.

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I could really go on and on about the interesting stories of the siblings of my direct ancestors (and their descendents) - or, at least, what I find interesting.

Although most of them are just minor stories that I find interesting - such as one being a witness in a murder trial or another running her own business as a laundress and employing several people.

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In my experience, it is well worth while spending time exploring the lives of the siblings and their descendents.

Fgfgfg · 02/09/2026 19:09

I found out my great grandmothers brother was sentenced to 6 months hard labour for attempting suicide. I found a newspaper report and his court record. It's an unusual surname so was definitely him. In 1905 he jumped in the Thames but was rescued, then told people he had wanted to die. Suicide was a crime until 1961 so if you tried and failed you had committed a crime!

CarrieOakie · 02/09/2026 19:13

I like going sideways then coming back to see who I can find alive, varying degrees of success

maxslice · 02/09/2026 19:18

Yes.

EthanolHawke · 02/09/2026 20:32

It’s great to hear all these stories. I found myself going off on a tangent looking at siblings and wondered whether I was helping or hindering myself.

Sounds as if I’m helping myself! And yes, some of the stories from the siblings are much more interesting than my own direct line 😆

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merryhouse · 02/09/2026 22:45

Definitely. I've managed to fit all but one household in the 1841 census for my birthplace into my tree 😁
Not sure which was more exciting, a name I recognised as having written history books about said birthplace or JMBarrie's nephew marrying my granny's auntie.
And as others have said, it can be really helpful especially when you suddenly see "nephew" in a census

NestaVipaz · 03/09/2026 18:59

Cotopaxi · 02/09/2026 16:22

Yes, it can really help you to overcome a brick wall in your research, because you can use their details or their spouse's name to double-check things on censuses and looking at the names of witnesses on marriage certificates. If you have more than one possible individual and you're not sure which is which, you can confirm that you've got the right one. Particularly helpful if it is a common surname, and one of the other family members has an unusual first name. Helps to pin down the right family. Ebenezer Smith is a lot easier to find than John Smith.

I bring you...Henry Clark :(

Another2Cats · 03/09/2026 19:26

merryhouse · 02/09/2026 22:45

Definitely. I've managed to fit all but one household in the 1841 census for my birthplace into my tree 😁
Not sure which was more exciting, a name I recognised as having written history books about said birthplace or JMBarrie's nephew marrying my granny's auntie.
And as others have said, it can be really helpful especially when you suddenly see "nephew" in a census

"Definitely. I've managed to fit all but one household in the 1841 census for my birthplace into my tree 😁"

That definitely sounds like there's a story there. Was that somewhere like the Scilly Isles where families just kept on marrying each other because they were basically cut off from the mainland?

merryhouse · 03/09/2026 22:23

Another2Cats · 03/09/2026 19:26

"Definitely. I've managed to fit all but one household in the 1841 census for my birthplace into my tree 😁"

That definitely sounds like there's a story there. Was that somewhere like the Scilly Isles where families just kept on marrying each other because they were basically cut off from the mainland?

No, an English midlands parish... sooner or later everyone married a Brewin

I tried drawing it out and it was very complicated (they didn't necessarily stay in the same generation either - youngest daughter married the nephew of her oldest sister's husband)

I'm sure the one remaining household would have joined in, if they'd stayed long enough (they worked the mill, and appeared to move about a lot)

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