i really want to plant a wedding cake tree which i think will grow to 8m x 8m. how close to a wall can i get away with planting it? and how far from the house should it be? i have a garden that's about 8m wide, but i'm hoping that the branches can overhang the road, so i could plant it closer to the wall than the house... or am i kidding myself and my garden is just too small?