Sorry for long post - Can anyone please help. I would like to know the ins and outs of army life. We've been living apart and now feel it's time for me and the kids to move with him (probably next year when his back from Afghan. It will be alot cheaper. It's costing too much at the mo. DD is 15, DD 10 and DS 3. The biggest worry I have is that DH mentioned that pending on the situation we might have to put kids in boarding school, over my dead body will I do that. I am a full time mum right now and the children are my life. I'm planning on doing a 2 year part-time course in Sep to get a sports massage diploma. So confused as to whether moving with him next year would be a good thing. Any advice please would be much appreciated as I'm tearing my hair out at all the things that could go wrong. Worried I won't fit in with all the army wives, I'm completely clueless to army life.