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Forces sweethearts

If you have a family member in the Royal Navy, RAF or army, find support from other Mumsnetters here.

Got next year's Longcast - really fed up now.

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SquIDGEyeyeballs · 25/10/2009 20:18

DH will be away for 38 weeks out of 52 next year

It's just shit; I'm getting so fed up of this. I've been doing it for 15 years and I've had enough.

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ThisPhantomPlopsPumpkins · 25/10/2009 20:24

I hate getting the longcast, always depressing!

Is he off on deployment or is it loads of exercises?

SquIDGEyeyeballs · 25/10/2009 20:35

I'm not 100% sure, I think it's mostly trials and exercises. The longest stretch is 20 weeks, I know it's not as long as many of the small ships do but it's long enough to do all in one go. No FOV, no R&R. Tis pants.

I think I will need to make some goals - lose weight, get fitter, redecorate etc!

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FourArms · 31/10/2009 22:46

Are longcasts generally accurate for you?

Sympathise massively though. By the end of the year DH will have been away at sea for 75% of the time, and working up/down for another 22.5%. Oh no, I exaggerate, he had 2 wks compassionate when DS2 was v.ill!

hf128219 · 31/10/2009 22:49

Oh crap that is awful. Lots of love to you sea going lovelies ladies x

Singed · 31/10/2009 22:58

Fourarms - I'm pinning my hopes on the longcast being drastically reviewed due to lack of funds!

Sounds like you have had it as bad as us lately - even when DH's ship was alongside he was averaging a 60-70 hour week so we didn't even see much of him then. Humph.

FlappyTheBat · 31/10/2009 23:30

Life with the navy is bad, isn't it?

Dh leaves current ship thankfully at the end of the year, we worked out that from joining to leaving - approx 18 months - he will have been able to come home for 14 weekends and will have had 3 weeks holiday.

Even the weekends he was able to come back, weren't proper weekends as he didn't come home until Fri eve and left Sun afternoon.

Singed · 31/10/2009 23:34

That's pants Flappy but sadly familiar. Where will your DH go next? (understand if you don't want to say!) Hopefully somewhere with a bit more downtime.

FlappyTheBat · 31/10/2009 23:45

shore job, based not too far from home but too far to come home every night but will be so much better!

fingers crossed for you that longcast is changed for the better!!

Singed · 31/10/2009 23:53

Thanks

Hope you get to see a bit more of your DH soon too.

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