thoroughly fed up - please give me a hug

[wtfhashappened]

dh is on ANOTHER exercise - stuck here in Germany and doing a dependant's job 4 mornings a week: supposed to be paid 4 weeks in arrears - so far have been waiting 7 weeks for my wages because the paymetn office in UKSCG is 'undermanned': all very well, but I have had to pay 3 lots of child care in that time so I am down over 1700 euros. Have literally no money - cannot contact dh to get him to release some money from our savings to tide me over. Have spent all day trying to get people to sort it out and keep getting fobbed off. To top it all had someone around for tea with their kids and they left the house in such a state it took me 2 hours to sort it out, as well as trying to get my 3 to bed. Asked a neighbour to come and sit for 20 mins so I could go to the naafi and get some milk, and she rang me at 7 pm and said she was out on the lash and couldn't make it. This is so bloody hard and I feel like shite.

Is there anyone who can lend you a few Euro? Or perhaps can the families officer help with contacting DH in the circs?

Whereabouts in Germany are you? We might be able to help.

scoots - its me - BTN - where HAVE you been!

Mostly at Go Bananas.....

Are you working tomorrow? Are you still at LH?

This is what happens when you change your name - I can't find you!

yes sorry - but I have put the odd shout out for you. I am supposed to be in LH tomorrow and I suppose I will go, but I am seriously tempted to tell them I won't be in again until they f=ing pay me.

Don't get completely stuck - shout if you need some euros to tide you over. Or go on strike....

I really want to - Dh thinks I am mad - would you?

Knowing what I do about that place, I think they could do with a kick up the arse...
Have you contacted the garrison works support officer, or whatever they're called/ It's a woman called Petra Graham - her details are in the Buzz. She should be able to help, surely. Or come and see us at GB tomorrow after you walk out

Have to go and watch the Indian cookery thing on BBC2 - back in half an hour.

Yup, I've got to go and make the packed lunches - are you on Gum patch the K street no 8? Big Tits thought you were. If so, I will come and see you tomorrow at some point. Petra doesn't work for UKSCG, so she can't help - its been up to div dcos level and even he won't shift his arse to help.

Hope you get it sorted

thank you hf

Big hug, keep brave!

wtfhashappened- I am in your area now, if ever you fancy a brew just let me know, you can always come to mine if you dont mind dogs. (and anyone else in the area) DH has deployed again, been gone a month have a month left, we have only had 1month together this year!!..
Or we could meet uo at camo.

Do anyof you go tot he mums and tots meetings in the old church hall.

The kids and i have settled in well, the two older ones are loving there new schools, and little man goes to creche one morning a week to give me a break..
Hope you get everything sorted wtf.. Good Luck.

Sorry - turned the computer off last night by msistake and couldn't be bothered to power it all up again.

The big-bosomed one (although not so big now!) is correct. Thursday afternoons are good, and Fridays sometimes. Come and see the chaos!

hope your okay, sendign big hug

I run the singing in the church hall on Fridays, twoplusone, do you go?

Huge hugs - no practical help at all but much moral and emotional support.

I have been once.. a few weeks ago, I came in very near the end, with my little boy. (his name is Lee) we sat for the last two songs then he had a bit of play time. I think to start with we sat next to you then we moved just opposite you when you started singing the goodbye song.. I think I have seen you around aswell, I think if you are who I am thinking off
. I will hopefully begoing on friday , trying to get little one to miss out his morning naps so i can go to groups and things with him. if i go will introduce myself to you.

still no money. They promised me it would be in on Thursday. I am now making myself ill with worry about this.

Is your DH in the RAF wtf? My Dad is an RAF Welfare Officer (in UK) so I could ask him to help sort this out if that's any good?

that's really kind, but no, he's army.

You poor thing. Go and see the Families' Office.

Where is your husband on excercise? Surely someone can get him a message about the situation. I know it doesn't solve the actual problem of UKSCG being a bunch of fuckwits but at least you can get some money. You know where we are if you need anything.