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Forces sweethearts

If you have a family member in the Royal Navy, RAF or army, find support from other Mumsnetters here.

Is it Saffa i need to go to

8 replies

Saltire · 09/06/2011 17:29

to ask advice about what support there is for me to leave DH?

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penguin73 · 09/06/2011 17:49

SSAFA, padre, HIVE - all can help though SSAFA is your best bet for confidentiality and impartiality.

MrsSnaplegs · 09/06/2011 18:30

We're here as well if you need us

vintageteacups · 09/06/2011 18:31

Oh saltire - hope you're okay. Yes ssafa best people I think.

madwomanintheattic · 09/06/2011 18:35

oh, saltire. Sad

call ssafa and the padre in the first instance - ssafa for practicals, and the padre for talking things through. if you are blue (think you are) there will be unit welfare officer. but they are usually pretty crapola if i'm honest for blue types.

hope you're ok-ish. you don't need to make any decisions until you're ready. just talk through. x

wheresthepimms · 09/06/2011 18:46

my friend has just gone through this and you can try the british legion too they helped her loads, even paid her bond and first months rent for her so she could rent then claim housing benefit. Our UWO was useless and the hive just gossiped about it so she went through SSAFA and they told her to go the british legion.

Hope you are OK :( remember we are all here for support

Saltire · 10/06/2011 08:01

Thanks everyone. Saffa here is part time and I'm not going to the one at the next camp up the road as I don't trust the woman. I'll see saffa on monday i think

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shesgotherlipstickon · 10/06/2011 10:17

Hope you are ok, I have seen your posts, repsonded under diff names, i change all the time as my hubs can't be identified.

But I'm in a similar position to you, as in hubs same service, never at home, doing other peoples jobs. It's stressful as hell.

Hope you are ok x

mpsw · 10/06/2011 15:34

Saltire - just wanted to wish you the best.

Do shout out if you need help on any specific points.

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