Personally I don't like it so don't know. Though I'm making one (!)
I've come across many recipes - all have done form of alcohol in it. I've seen
Masala (not specified sweet or dry)
Sweet masala
Brandy
Kahlua
Vodka (?!)
I'm clueless: really need it made today (ready for tomorrow) but I don't have any of the booze in the house bar an unopened bottle of vodka I've been wondering what to do with and has-been planning on giving back as a raffle prize. But the vodka seems the oddest one!). Can I make it without?