I guess by healthy relationship you mean not binging, starving or exiting on junk? Here is evening meals for a week. Breakfast is usualy cereal (shredded wheat/museli etc), yoghurt with fruit or poached egg on toast. Lunch is some sort of salad. I love my food and have the odd blow out e.g last friday was a meal out with friends. If I have a dessert it is usually fruit based. DH is trying to lose weight (mainly beer related..) and we have been eating carte d'or low fat ice cream rather than cream, full fat ice cream.
Saturday
Smoked hadddock chowder
Sunday
Pork chop, freekeh pilaf
Monday
Roast chicken, roast potatoes, carrot and neep mash, kale
Tuesday
Turkey in tomato sauce, rice, carrots
Wednesday
Kofte, tabbouleh, watermelon salad
Thursday
Baked chicken thigh, butternut squash
Friday
Beef bourgignon pie, cheese and chutney slice, rocky road, scone, lemon cake
Venison casserole