What are your reasons for going vegetarian? How quickly do you get ill? Some people just aren't cut out for an entirely vegetarian diet and seem to get ill quickly, whilst other people can go completely vegan and remain healthy.
Could you just eat meat once a week but ensure that the meat is organic/free range and has had a decent life? What about eating fish?
If you're switching to soya mince or veggie sausages, then why can't your husband join in? I don't personally like the "fake meat" products and avoid them and all the pre-made veggie foods. A typical weekly meal plan for us might include:
Risotto (whatever vegetable is in season, so asparagus in early summer, squashes in autumn). You could make it non-veggie by throwing in some chopped ham.
Pasta with roast vegetables. (Roast cherry toms and mushroom are our favourite.)
Pasta with melted cream cheese and frozen spinach stirred in, sprinkled with parmesan (not entirely vegetarian due to the parmesan).
Sausage and chips - just use veggie sausages.
Fish and salad, with a potato side (mash or wedges)
None of those meals take longer than 30 minutes to cook from scratch.