What do you think is the best for a four year old starting Reception next week ? I am really torn between the two - on one hand I know that he'll probably eat a reasonable amount of what I make in his lunchbox, but I also think that maybe starting off at school with dinners (ie. the queueing/choosing what he has/eating with knives and forks etc - as opposed to picking at bits of pasta salad and bread - ) might be quite a good thing too - so what am I to decide ? The teachers weren't terribly illuminating on the subject,so I don't know what the food is like,though there is a choice. I have until Friday to decide !