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Rant about a garbage bloke

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Chaut · Yesterday 10:31

Only within a week or two of speaking and meeting up, he said he cares about me and told me we already have a “thing” going on… this is extremely weird. I didn’t know people these days rush into a relationship. He didn’t even ask me if I wanted to get into a relationship before this, so I find it rude that he thinks he already owns me… Usually, in my past relationships, people took time to get to know each other a lot more and to discover what our favourite hobbies were.

I’m also a mixed person and mostly of a certain ethnicity, and I feel he has some kind of fetish. I saw who he follows on Instagram, and it was mostly people who teach a certain language, and actresses and random Instagram girls of such descent.

So out of curiosity, I asked him why he cares about me, and he told me he’s “never met a girl with so many layers before” and that he’s very interested in getting to know me because he wants a relationship where “people can grow and learn hard lessons together” 😆😆😆 So if he doesn’t even know me, why is he even claiming me as his girlfriend already???

Seems to me like some lady fell for his tactics before, so he’s using a similar tactic. Some humans are so garbage!! And yes I blocked him. 😆

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ohnowhat · Yesterday 15:30

Unless you are missing something out, I don't get why him saying you have a "thing going on" equates to him thinking he owns you.
"A thing going on" sounds pretty casual to me.
A week or two is not long though. You can end it if you like.
Should this be in Relationships?

Chilltme · Yesterday 15:32

Well you sound like you hate him so I’d suggest ending it?! I think it’s perfectly possible to have a thing going on after a couple of weeks. I know I did with my DH!

Awkwardisfunny · Yesterday 16:35

Good for you!

Chaut · Yesterday 23:11

I said I blocked him haha, it was just a rant because I thought the whole situation was a bit stupid. And it could help someone recognize the signs of a narcissist

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Chaut · Yesterday 23:13

If you read the whole thing, I did say I blocked him. I didn’t ask for advice and this was just a fun rant. To explain what you were asking, I didn’t leave anything out. It’s in the narrative: He doesn’t even know me well and was telling other people and me that I was his girlfriend. It was very bizarre so he ended up getting blocked.

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GaIadriel · Today 00:22

Kinda disappointed this wasn't about a rogue binman.

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