Retired man gets to do what he likes, hobbies etc . His wife is having health issues temporarily disabled awaiting surgery hopefully. He's turned into such an angry man. He now has to take the bins out onto the road because of the steps she can't manage. He has to do some shopping and carry heavy stuff. He has to carry the wet washing out for her . Apart from that everything rolls on as before. He does do some cooking.
He rages that she should apply for attendance allowance and give him the money. He keeps accusing her of gaslighting him. Now where did he learn that word?
She's starting to suspect he's going on moaning about women websites and getting lots of sympathy and advice on how to handle her from certain things he's blurted out during his frequent tantrums. They're just not his words, turn of phrase.
Is this possible, if so anyone have an idea how to find out. It's really affecting him in a negative way.