Is there a thread about Lily Phillips?

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Have I missed it?

She is an influencer who is describing on TikTok what it is like to be "ran through" by 100 men in a day. Apparently this is a euphemism for sex. She plans to do it now with 1000 men.

God help us if young girls now see this as something to aspire to. I just can't see a situation where a healthy young woman with strong self esteem would ever do this and I was reminded a lot of how I felt when I read Louise Perry's book about the downsides of the sexual revolution especially what she terms "sexual disenchantment.

I’m afraid it’s absolutely true.
So called “gang bangs” are extremely common in the porn world. This young woman is making a lot of money doing this. She’ll probably end up very jaded, miserable and possibly badly injured.

Big tech are unstoppable it seems

I remember watching a mainstream TV documentary years ago about some woman doing this kind of thing - possibly in Singapore or somewhere similar. That porn sleazebag Ron Jeremy was involved. It was gross and unsettling. The woman was oddly determined but vacant, she seemed sad and hollow. The male participants.... words fail me...how disgusting.

I just came across this girl on my twitter feed recently and I cannot get over how horrific this is. It's so so sad. It's like a strange form of self harm. She was essentially used by 101 men recently and next year wants to attempt 1000 in a day. 😢

I'm not sure if you were being serious but I really do believe it was 101 different guys. I haven't watched the video obviously but I think she did actually do this for real.

Many years ago I watched a film about a woman who did this. I remember her surname was Chong so I just looked her up and indeed it's Annabel Chong.

Some choice excerpts from her Wikipedia page:

She had sex with some of the men without a condom. It later emerged that the STD testing had not been as strictly verified as the producers had led her to believe.

Even though the film became one of the highest-grossing pornographic films of all time, she was never paid the US$10,000 she was promised, and she apparently never received any money from the video.

I recall in the film I watched she came across as a disturbed person, lots of nervous laughing and little signs of mental insecurity. And iirc she described being gang raped before going into porn.

And I also remember a fat horrible ugly troll of a man explaining how, due to contractual complications, they weren't going to pay her.

Watching that film was actually a foundational experience for me in terms of my thoughts on pornography.

Yes, it was Sex:The Annabel Chong Story.

Disturbing.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/what-happened-to-annabel-chong/

She is now a software engineer.

"the most famous Singaporean" ??

Shouldn't that read infamous? Glad she's moved on to more worthwhile work but blimey what a background for your CV!!

Just seen this on X. The poor woman looks upset, traumatised, like she can’t compute what’s just happened to her.

x.com/joshua_pieters/status/1866191949847306338?s=46&t=1aHHz--1trdFYD3JLvjMSA

Some of these women are sociopaths and unaffected by it so she is not necessarily traumatised BUT she is almost certainly lying to gain followers, notority and also OF pay women to say it's empowering etc. DD was offered £75per post on reddit and other sites to lure women onto PF - she was approached at a Fresher event and has never done any modelling etc. I think women like this one, Katie Nash etc are grooming young women - poor women - into sex work.

That is one of the most disturbing things I’ve seen. I feel so upset for her.

I've seen her account on Tiktok and she is with Bonnie Blue a lot of the time.

Those who havent seen it I'd take look at that, it doesn't show them having sex just talking about it. Their attitudes are awful.

I can't feel sorry for Bonnie Blue. I think she's quite clever and is loving the amount of money she is making. She loves winding other women up about sleeping with their partners.

She's obviously over it. She's now talking about trying to do a 1,000.

Apparently there are going to be other young women there to help keep the men's dicks up so they will be ready to orgasm by the time they get to her

This is interesting because some of the posters are saying she must have had something happen to her to make her do this. If it was a young man he would just have been called sick. I actually think lily & her friend know exactly what they are doing and earning a lot of money.

They are called 'fluffers'. What a career choice.

I just watched a you tube video about this stunt, and she seems empty and soulless at the end.

She can't be mentally 'well' = she doth protest too much about ''loving it''.

The video {documentary} maker actually gagged upon smelling the stale sperm in the room when Lily had finished.

She also had no idea that STD's can be transmitted via sperm in the eyes and mouth.
She has a team leaching off her as well.

I have no issue with OF or women selling sex I think it makes men mad because it's a platform where women can now control things and it's subverted the power dynamics for many women (although not all).

But this is my limit, her team
are so careless she could have been murdered? What she describes about disassociating is similar to rape. Her family need to step in, it's gone past OFs now.

Is this the woman pp referenced who holds the record? Annabel Chong? I've done some research into the sex industry & I was v struck by her story. She seemed a nice person & now works in IT. I suspect the gang bang thing was at least partly driven by the gang rape she had suffered before. She claimed she wanted to emulate Messalina, I'm not sure what her attitude to sex was before the assault when was at an Ivy League, maybe she would've liked to experiment but I suspect wouldn't have been anywhere that extreme. The men I think lied about STD protection.

Oh sorry I hadn't seen the Vice link.

Apparently her mother is her financial manager

Nope, definitely different men. The whole thing was filmed including all the men arriving, hanging out and leaving.

OP there is a long thread in AIBU about this. https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5228277-aibu-to-feel-completely-distressed-by-the-viral-video-of-the-aftermath-of-onlyfans-worker-lily-p-sleeping-with-100-men?reply=140483054