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Abortion advice and who to confide in

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AdviceNeeded919 · 16/10/2024 12:55

Hello

I have irregular periods but think we can pin conception down to around 3-4 weeks ago. I found out this morning I am pregnant not perimenopausal.

I don't want to write too much but there is a lot of basis for my choice to have an abortion so my post isn't about advice on making that decision.

I am going to contact BPAS as that came up in a search and is local. Has anybody used them for help with arranging an abortion? Are they a good service to use?

I want to ask about whether it is a good idea to seek support from people close to you. I have some good friends, but everyone has their own opinions on other people's lives and choices and especially something so sensitive. My Husband will struggle to support me through this. I don't want to upset them or be judged harshly. Shall I keep this to myself?

Thank you if you read this far.

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