Hi, I'm in my thirties have never been on oral contraceptives as was put off by the idea of weight gain/skin problems depression everything else you hear about, oh increase risk of cancer , but now I am single and have two kids already , just starting to date again but do not want any 'accidents' would a non hormonal coil be best? Although I hate the idea of that in me, are there any really good pills that make books bigger? That would be a fab side effect! Also something that won't make my skin awful. I understand that the docs usually give the cheapest ones first, but are there any good ones I could ask for? Like I say, I'm clueless wen it comes to this stuff, tia