HELP PLEASE! vasectomy incision gaping open, not healed at all after 3 days... normal?

[LadySanders]

dh had vasectomy wed morning. no stitches. was advised to wait 72 hours til showering. had shower this morning and incision is wide open, about 1.5 cm long... is this normal?

Hmm I would say not. Why no stitches?

No stitches ? that really doesn't seem right. Can he get to see an out of hours doctor?

Or was it glued (and the glues has come out)?

apparently its normal that they don't stitch or glue... but i would assume the edges should have knitted together

is it bleeding? How deep
does it feel hot to touch ?
pain?

get it seen by someone at gp surgery

his bollocks too damn heavy and have pulled the wound apart

oozing a bit but not bleeding and pain doesn't seem too bad.

i'm struggling to get near it cos he is very squeamish and nearly passes out when i touch it which isn't handy... but its big enough to get a fingertip in (not that i have done so, i hasten to add)

awaiting call back from clinic that did it but they wouldn't be able to see him til end of day so just hoping to get some reassurance to offer him before then

ggirl, either that, or he shouldn't have been practising his ballet dancing so soon after surgery

is he wearing tight pants ?
dh was told to

yup, he's currently sporting some very fetching y-fronts for a bit of support

well, we are back from doc, and yes it IS normal... if only they would tell you to expect to see a large hole there for 2 to 4 weeks, it would save a bit of anxiety!