I’ve peaked on my husband’s phone

[Tiredofbeingmesometimes]

Hi,

I’ve had cause to not entirely believe something my husband told me. So I peaked at his messages and found he was, indeed, lying to me.

Not a manor biggie, he’s not having an affair or anything, but do I tell him?
I’ve given him ample opportunity to come clean but he hasn’t.
I do know I was very bad doing that. But I just knew something wasn’t sitting right with me.

Suggestions?

Well what is it?

Unless you say what it is how can anyone respond?

Peaked or peeked?

I read it as peaked in the title but it’s peeked 😂
I did that once and didn’t let on for about 10 yrs that I knew he’d walked out on a job 🙄

@knitted I assume you read the thread title like same as me

I am assumed you "peeked".

Re. whether you should tell him - as PPs say unless we know what it is , its tough to say ,

Am assuming

Honestly it depends on what the lie was.

My DP 'peeked' on my phone' , and found very innocent conversations with a gamer friend.
Likely to be ex-DP soon.