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Last minute care home admission - what do we need to remember?

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BishyBarnyBee · 13/03/2025 20:59

My mother in law, who has struggled with short term memory issues and was diagnosed with terminal cancer in September, has taken a sudden turn for the worse. The cancer support team have been brilliant and arranged emergency admission to a highly recommended nursing home for end of life care described as likely to be "weeks to short months".

She'll have family visiting at weekends and a son who can pop over in an emergency. But it feels a real rush sorting her out for Monday.

I've thought about labelling clothes and making sure they are comfy and easy care. Obviously she'll need toiletries, hearing aid batteries, medication. Her knitting and a book, though she might not be up to either. Some cash. Some sweet treats.

We're also thinking about house security, bins etc.

Anything we might have forgotten? Anyone been through it and can tell us what you wish you'd known before?

Thanks.

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shellyleppard · 15/03/2025 08:07

Can you get a timer for the lights in her house so it looks like someone is home??? Sorry your mum in law is ill x

BishyBarnyBee · 19/03/2025 18:47

Just to say a huge thank you to everyone who chipped in. She was admitted this week and has settled as well as we could have hoped. It was so helpful to have all the ideas and hints on the thread. Thanks everyone.

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BishyBarnyBee · 19/03/2025 18:55

And the thing I would never have thought of...

I took some blutac in to stick photos on the wardrobe. She has spent a lot of time forming it into intricate shapes. It's obviously soothing her and on some level a teeny bit creative while she doesn't have the energy for her knitting or art.

I've sent off for these wax sticks which our kids loved when they were little and which I think might work for her.

https://amzn.eu/d/eO8Y4KV

Might not work but I thought worth a try. Very hard leaving her to come home today but she likes the home and has said several times she's relieved to be in there so as good as it gets really.

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