Elderly DM recently needed urgent surgery so DF arranged for it at a private hospital. It was supposed to be 4-5 days in hospital - but there were complications with the surgery and DM is now day 60 in hospital where DM is recuperating and they are managing infection. It's costing DF a huge amount and he can no longer afford the fees.
DM is not in a position to go home and needs hospital care but it's not clear if or how she might be able to move to an NHS hospital. It's hard to find any information about this online/via the NHS.
Of course DF can talk to the private hospital about this but wants to understand what's possible before he has what he feels is an embarrassing conversation.
Any experience of this or advice would be appreciated.