My dad is in a care home - was an alcoholic, not looking after himself, decline in mobility, I am not sure he has dementia def has some memory loss other than that he is mentally fine. He is 76.
when I go in the see him the careers speak to him like he is a child, im starting to find this really patronising and it's getting on his nerves. Feeding him like a baby with puréed food, not sure this is necessary.
my dad said today that a couple of the men shouted at him and none of them are as nice as they seem.
he told me who the guy was and I spoke to him and he laughed and seemed bemused.
they say my dad keeps pressing the buzzer and being quite demanding.
i am not sure what to do with this information and now im worried - he said a few weeks ago that a couple of them punched him so he punched them back?!
thanks