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Elderly parents

Mother hoarding her state pension

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Str4ngedaysindeed · 25/06/2017 10:58

My mother is pretty much house bound so I do shopping cleaning etc. She does get attendance allowance which I have told her she really needs to spend on a carer but she's being difficult about that!! The main issue is that she has nearly £8000 in her post office account from her state pension credit. It's because she rarely gets out ( although I do take her out) and she basically spends nothing. She lives in a sheltered flats and has about 12000 in capital. Will she be penalised for having this state pension pretty much 'hoarded' away ? It's just built up as I get out maybe £500 every month for her so she's rarely touching it. We've suggested we take some and put it into an account for her in our names for her funeral etc ( she has no provision) but she's being odd about that too.
To be honest this is just the tip of the iceberg, my life is bloody awful at the moment and she is not helping by assuming I'm constantly on call! She's convinced they can't touch her pension but I need to know! Cannot find it online anywhere. Can anyone tell me???

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Str4ngedaysindeed · 26/06/2017 11:31

Yes, we're transferring it so she can have more in her bank account ( I do her online shopping with her bank card and we talked about buying things online as that would be easier) Also just lowering the amount she has in her post office account. When I said 'our account' I mean one that we have in our names - she does give us money so if she offers us some it will be there already sorted of thing. I have no intention of touching it other wise! It's easier too if she has to make cash payments for me to just pay rather than faffing about getting more money out of her post office etc. She did have a cleaner who works for the complex where she lives but they left and no one has replaced them so I must get something sorted there.

I called her this morning and she was in a complete ranting mood about something else..arghhh

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