My father is still able to live at home for the moment but my mother is terminally ill and he wants to be involved in where he ends up, as and when the time comes, before his dementia gets too bad. I've been told to find some care homes for my brother to take my father to look at in Dorchester. I don't yet know anything about care homes (other than the horror stories that occasionally pop up in the news), so any top tips or recommendations would be hugely appreciated. TIA.