Do family members have to pay care home fees?

[jimijack]

I am horrified at the thought that me & dh will have to find the money to pay for fil to be cared for in a home.

He owns a house worth about £90k can that be sold to pay? What happens when the Money runs out? Who pays then?

Don't blame you jimijack .But when and if time comes make sure you get good advice! But no there is no reason you should be lumbered