My DM is rapidly approaching the end of her life, palliative care is in place, the elephant in the room aka the morphine driver, is ready. I am as fine as i can be with it all. For the last ten years or so she has had excellent care from a lovely team of (paid) carers, who really do think the world of mum. i would really like to give them a small gift after mum goes to say thank you from us all-something more than flowers or chocolates. I thought about a nice pen each (as they are always looking for one) with a lovely letter, but i don't know. (she is also getting some night time care through Macmillan, so obvs a donation for them.)