how old is he? I happened to overhear ds1 talking about his old state primary to some of his friends at his new private secondary who'd had sheltered upbringing at prep schools - he made it sound like south central LA when actually it was a lovely mainly middle class primary in leafy suburb - granted with a couple of 'problem' families but no violence problem at all
he'd realised the other boys had strange ideas about state primaries and was trying to get some street cred by pandering to the myths ...