Have just been very brave and attended my first ever school reunion. 20 years on
And my point is ......?
There was a good cross section of the "in-crowd", the "out-crowd", the "brain-boxes", the "athletes", the "musicians", the "odd-balls" etc etc etc. And 20 years on, it doesn't make a blind bit of difference. No-one could remember any of that stuff that seemed so important at the time and everyone pretty much turned out OK.
I guess anyone that totally screwed up probably wasn't there, but it was still a thought-provoking experience in terms of not getting too het up about some of the things that seem so important while your child is at school.