My 3rd yr junior teacher had a real reputation for being awful, harsh, overly critical and scary. The school was in the roughest part of town and had some behaviours that are even now toe curling from both children and adults.
I wrote to her when I saw her retirement in the paper after serving the school for 35 years.
I thanked her for giving me a life long love of music, for believing in me, for cuddling me through my tears (dad had died and I was teased a lot being mixed race in a 99.9% white school).
I thanked her for inspiring me to become a primary school teacher and to make a difference in lives like she did to me. She made me feel like a somebody and that I could overcome the hand my childhood dealt me.
Yes, she was absolutely awful to some children, but as an adult I now understand why.
She wrote back, thanking me for my letter, telling me of course she remembered me... And then told me with 35 year old detail why.
❤️ You are loved Mrs Cornish ❤️