Hi all. I’ve been a long time lurker (first time posting)
my DS has been given a place at summer school. He went today by train (I wasn’t able to come with him to drop him off unfortunately)and he will return next week on Friday. I’ve never been to uni myself, and he is staying in the halls of residence, so i asked him to send me a video of his accommodation. There were two very large discoloured carpet stains (orange/yellow) I said to him did he say anything (he said he did and that they said the carpet had been cleaned but the stain wouldn’t come out- I’m not sure he did say anything as he isn’t the type to mention if something is not right - he just gets on with it and puts up.) I said surely they would be able to swap his room as the uni students are all home for summer? I asked him to smell the stain ( and if it smells clean then it doesn’t matter if it is discoloured, I won’t bother mentioning it) he said it’s fine (again I think he just doesn’t want to be seen as making a fuss.) His dad said we should be grateful that he has been given place and shouldn’t complain-he’s only there for few days. Should I contact the uni or not? am I being silly? Thanks