My Bro is Now 20 years old & is a totally loser, who does jack & keeps putting himself into debt, he has now changed course start first year again & wants to go into Human Resources. he used to be so friendly but now is lazy jack *. Has no friends doesn't like drinking very selfish, does not want to get a job & get out of loserville, do I just leave him in the gutter, I have given him hope but I keep on wasting my energy on him & all he does is play on phone watch youtube videos all day, he is at Sheffield Uni by the way any help ideas would be much appreciated.