Hi, am preparing my appeals for 2 schools and would welcome any advice. We didn't get any of our 3 choices and have subsequently found out we live in a little "grey area" where we probably wouldn't have received any of our choices whatever we put down. We have been allocated a place at a school (one of only 3 in a large city under subscribed) that we are very unhappy with. In the mean time we have changed our third choice to one that is 'ok' and we are more likely to get into. We are also on wait lists for our top 2.
Our case is this. Our daughter was the subject of bullying( the catalyst to this was a comment about body hair :-( from a member of swimming staff employed by the sport centre the school took the class to for swimming lessons). She has become very shy around boys and as she has a particular interest and aptitude for STEM we feel that she would benefit from a girls school.
There have been other instances of bullying and School we have been overed has a much higher PAN than the 2 we are appealing. DD will feel safer in a smaller single sex school.
School number 2 is a sports academy and daughter is a talented swimmer and swims and competes in a club. She aspires to compete at high level.
Both schools have great results in STEM, DD aspires to Engineering. The School we have been offered is achieving below the national average for GCSE but clearly I cannot say this.
There are a few other lesser factors that I will be including but this is the crux of it.
Her School has written a glowing reference in terms of behaviour and potential (confirming ability in Maths) but is it better not to include this? My thinking is that she has no addional needs that would be an extra strain on resource to a school making a place for her.
Thanks so much for any help you can provide during this stressful time