I know this topic has been discussed ample times on these boards before wondering if someone has a more recent perspective to help us decide. DD has done quite well and is fortunate to have been offered a place at both (incidentally the only two schools we applied to). Now is the time to make the tricky decision!
DD is bright, friendly (but not very social/extrovert), academic & loves reading/art/science/poetry, not too sporty. Goes to the local co-ed primary now but more friendly with girls. She doesn't have a strong preference but a bit more inclined on JAPS due to (i) better rating (she's somehow heard/got this in mind from friends even though we tell here there isn't much difference) and (ii) all girls. She liked both during open days/school visits and found the assessment at Alleyn's a bit more relaxed / fun.
We parents haven't got a strong leaning for either. Both of us have gone to co-eds (in a different country though) but don't feel particularly strongly about single sex vs. co-ed. We liked both during our visits (though did notice some differences along the lines of what each of the school is better known for). Anyhow, our overall impression:
JAPS/JAGS
+ves: great results, we heard the new senior school headteacher and were impressed, liked the prep school head as well, like the emphasis on community & diversity which we could notice, great music & sports, girls seemed happy, know current parents who have been v. happy
-ves: unashamedly academic (which was apparent to DD in the assessment as well but equally we didn't get the impression of a hothouse), didn't feel as communicative as Alleyn's, and an odd point but somehow the overall layout seemed a bit odd to us even though the school has great facilities we know
Alleyn's Junior
+ves: Seemed a bit more relaxed / engaging, great results even though a shade behind JAGS, Junior school seemed more spacious / better facilities than JAPS though surely that's not a big factor, clear focus on the all round aspect
-ves: have to admit that diversity came across as a concern from what we could see on our visits (we are of Asian origin and certainly don't want DD to feel left out/alienated), children seemed happy but a bit shy, the new Junior school head came across as friendly & nice but we weren't overly impressed (asked the diversity question to him as well for a very diplomatic response), and all the stuff about girls having to look good/celeb parents does worry a bit (though we don't know any current parent to affirm it firsthand) - we are both professionals and well to do but certainly not loaded
Overall both DD and us leaning towards JAPS (though only slightly). Really torn otherwise and have to decide quickly (next Wednesday)!! Would very much appreciate any thoughts / views based on recent experience & particularly from current parents.
Many thanks!