The junior school I work at is currently creating a new food policy, and we're asking parents their views particularly on issues such as whether sweets/and/or cakes should be sold at charity sales, PTA events etc and whether children should be allowed to bring in sweets etc to distribute on their birthday. (We already ban all nuts & allow only 'healthy' snacks at playtime. We have a resource for ASD children, and are able to make separate arrangements for SN children if necessary.)
I thought that mumsnet views would be interesting and helpful.....