Fianl straw was: He didn' do his homeowrk last night as he was too tired (well he did half) Sent a note in that he was too tired and that I didn't want him kept in atlunch. She shouted at him.
I went in blazing. She didn't know that he got home after 6 evry night ( how long has she worked there) Siad I was not happy and nor was he with her shouting at him. Said he hated school and used to love it.
We compromised about homework and I willhave a word with ds3 about his (apparenlty) cocky attitude ..news to me!!!